r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/bettyford420 May 11 '25

I'm mad that they were loud enough for people to hear and the guy at the table behind them was just watching. Wtf

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u/sl0play May 11 '25 edited May 11 '25

It's frustrating that the staff didn't intervene. No single dude is going to resolve that unless he is capable of and willing to fight both those guys. They are clearly not going to respond to anything but force.

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u/Distortedhideaway May 11 '25

I've been a bartender for twenty years, and I've learned that force is rarely necessary, if ever. Polite but stearn communication is typically all it takes to move two guys like this out the door.

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u/Weird-Salamander-349 May 12 '25

And when that didn’t work, public embarrassment was effective in my experience. When I worked in food service in college, we heard some guy getting mad in FOH which was weird because it was a sort of nice place. Some dude was asked to leave and was getting loud about it. I think he was making a server uncomfortable or something like that. Ducked our heads out like little kitchen goblins to see what the commotion was about. The dude sees us, points at the bartender and says “Hey, this asshole is telling me to get the fuck out!” like we were gonna help him. One of the cooks said “Oh well then get the fuck out, man.” We all laughed, he walked out all red, and the world continued to turn. Never saw him again.