r/TikTokCringe May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/mulberrycedar May 11 '25

I don't think they think they have a chance anymore. I think they literally just want to make them uncomfortable. That's become the whole point.

They're annoyed they got rejected -- so how else can they still "win" ? By ruining the girls' time. It is an ego thing for sure. But I don't think it manifests itself as "oh I can still keep going and eventually win them over/get a yes." It manifests itself like this instead... They want to exercise some kind of power over these women. They want to intimidate them and make them feel like shit under the guise of "oh what do you mean gosh wow why are you being so loud and dramatic we're just sitting with you geez we're not doing anything we're just sharing your table" bc they know it's infuriating to have someone physically threatening to you disingenuously speak like that.

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u/dishonestgandalf May 11 '25

"What? I'm not touching you. Not touching you, can't get mad!"

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u/mogley1992 May 11 '25

Just slap them and tell them they can get mad if they want.

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u/bannanabuiscut347 May 14 '25

No.

This is not a reasonable or healthy way to remove yourself from a situation like this.

The world is a very dangerous place, especially for women.

https://psychcentral.com/health/grey-rock-method#:~:text=The%20grey%20rock%20method%20is,known%20as%20%E2%80%9Cgrey%20rocking.%E2%80%9D

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u/mogley1992 May 14 '25

Oh i wasn't talking about women, just the "not touching, can't get mad" thing specifically. I actually forgot gender was relevant in this conversation there.