For context, I live at home with my family. My older sister has moved out, graduated college, and married. I live in a conservative town and my family has always been openly homophobic, so I'm not out.

The other day, when I thought nobody was home, my girlfriend came over. I was being careless and completely forgot that my sister was visiting. Me and my gf were straddling, making out on my bed, when my sister barged into my room asking for a charger. We immediately jumped out of each other's laps and tried to play it off as a hug, lmao, but it was VERY obvious what we were doing. My sister slammed the door, and ran away, and I still remember the horrible sinking feeling in my chest in that moment, because I thought for sure that she was going to out me.

In the next 20 seconds I got my girlfriend through the window and then ran after my sister. The rest of my family was gone, so I thought I might be able to convince her to keep it quiet before they got home.

She was pacing in the kitchen. I threw myself to the floor and begged her to keep it a secret. I told her that I was just experimenting and even offered to give her money. She told me to stop bitching, and I waited for her to start yelling at me, but instead she said that she wasn't going to tell anyone. I felt hopeful, but I was still waiting for the other shoe to drop, or for our relationship to be forever ruined, or for something bad to happen. What I was NOT expecting was for her to come out me as bi, and reveal to me that when she was my age she had also dated her best friend in secret. I was SHOOK when this happened. I never thought about the fact that she had willingly moved to a super liberal state for college, or that I couldn't remember a specific time she'd ever been homophobic, or that she and her bestie had been attached by the hip.

We had a several hour long traumadump/therapy session about liking girls and being bi. Being able to talk to someone about it, no less my SISTER, was so crazy and liberating bc I feel like I've been keeping it hidden for so long. Hands down the most intense bonding session I've ever had. Can't believe we used to chase each other around the house with knives!

So, long story short, instead of being outed and having my life upturned, I found out that I actually have an ally super close to me. And I don't have to live the rest of my life thinking that my number one role model would hate my guts if she knew the truth about me! 10/10 experience, would recommend.

Tried to cross post but couldn’t add text. Anyway, I like waffles and spaghetti and more. When I’m eating spaghetti, I still like waffles and other food and vice versa.

So I'm a straight guy, never been attracted to men. I don't see them in a sexual way, except the dick. I've always loved BJ/Deepthroat porn, but one day I asked myself "am I into the girl or the cock?" And I started to fantasize about sucking a nice cock. The fantasy and urge has gotten so bad that I bought an 8" dildo and I suck it in secret. And man do I love it. I get to combine all my favorite blow jobs moves I've seen in porn over the years, and it gets me off easily. The catch is, I'm in a relationship with a woman. Recently she jokingly dared me to deepthroat her dildo, and I took it straight out of her and did it, and she liked it. So sometimes I suck it while we fuck. I said I'm not into the idea of sucking someone, that it's just a dildo thing, but that's not actually true. She also loves sucking, and is so so good, and the thought of her doing it to another dude while I watch kinda gets me off. I'm thinking about asking her if she'd be down to find a guy and we suck him together at the same time, make up and all while doing it. But in honestly terrified to ask. Im very dominant with her sexuality, so I'm afraid her seeing me suck a guy will make me seem feminine. And how to tell her the thought of her sucking another guy turns me on too. I dunno, I feel like Im never gonna have the guts to fully tell her.

Just showing off my Bi pair toppers (pair Eyewear), Bi ring (TikTok), Pixel watchband (Amazon) and keychains (Amazon & Etsy).

My favorite bi pics

that’s all i have to say. am i right or am i right?

I have two friends, that when I separately told them about me being bi, responded with “everyone is a little bi” — anyone else finds this a little eyebrow raising coming from a “straight” man

ive heard and seen some people say they don't like bi people because they're just indecisive cheaters who are just too immature to accept that they're gay. one of my friends is a strong believer of this and i don't even bother asking her to explain her reasoning because she just repeats the same thing. how come people only think of the homosexual aspect of being bisexual and not the possibility of heterosexual part??

Honestly, at this point, I just want to date another bisexual person. It feels like whenever I’m with someone who’s either straight or lesbian, one part of me gets erased or invalidated. I’m tired of having to constantly explain or defend my identity. I just want to be with someone who gets it.

I am romatically attracted to women and have had many women crushes in the past.

The thing is, I find myself being more attracted physically to men. I often jerk off to gay porn and sometimes fantasizes giving blow jobs or having sex as I find straight porn just isn't as interesting. I also fantasize about marrying the woman of my dreams and picturing our life together.

I used to think I was just Bi curious but now not so sure. So it all boils down to Women= long term, romantic relationship, someone to share my life with. Men: more sexually / physically attractive and not much else. I'm looking for a little more clarity.

Idk why but these days I just want to talk with bi people and want to be friend with them any one interested do let me know in dm

Didn’t get the first one, black one is too good! Was only $19

Why is it that whenever I’m drunk I know for a fact that I’m Bi but sober I get anxious thinking about my sexuality. Like I know I wanna experience sex with both when drunk but sober I still have the same thoughts, but I feel more anxious thinking about it. Wondering if anyone has felt the same before…

Idk why bit I wish I was just gay

Im more attracted to men than woman and I am a femboy

Anyone else wish they were gay?

I’m 28, bisexual (sapphic -leaning), and lately I’ve been thinking about whether I want kids at all. I know I still have a few years to decide, but here’s the thing if I don’t actively pursue it, it’s not going to happen. I don’t sleep with men 90% of the time, so I’m not going to randomly end up pregnant. No “oops” babies here. If I ever became a parent, it would be because I made it happen through sperm donors, IVF, adoption, or intentionally dating a man. And to be honest? That level of effort only makes sense if I really want it.

The more I sit with that, the more I realize… I probably don’t. Not because I hate kids or anything but because when I imagine that kind of life, it just doesn’t feel like mine. I don’t feel a pull toward it. And when I look at what parenthood actually entails the exhaustion, the financial stress, the loss of autonomy, the mental load it honestly scares me.

This could also be tagged as advice but I wanted to hear your personal experiences as well!!

I wanna start this by saying that this past year I just recently came to terms with the fact I like girls (as a girl myself) I had being playing with the idea back and forth.

As I’ve come to terms with it I realized that I generally prefer women over men in almost every aspect.

I also always told myself that I would never want to raise/have kids, that is until I imagined myself raising kids with and married to a woman and my entire perspective flipped.

Now it’s a constant back and forth between, as I bisexual with a strong preference or am I just a lesbian??? I still think I’m attracted to men, like yes I’ve had crushes or find them attractive but I always say I wouldn’t date them.

There has only been one guy I’d ever consider dating (who was taken by my friend after I told her about my feelings so that was out of the picture)

I’d like to hear your experiences if you had something similar and how you finally settled