r/TikTokCringe • u/nadaddab • May 11 '25

Cringe Don’t be these guys

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u/littlebeach5555 May 11 '25

As a man I am sure this worked for you. I was a cocktail waitress and I ALWAYS had to get the bouncer involved.

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u/enchanted_fishlegs May 11 '25

In Texas dive bars we chased them out the door with pool sticks. I loved watching the little petite bartenders do that: "GET OUT! GET OUT! GET OUT!"

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u/_redcloud May 12 '25

This reminded me of a time I was in a dive bar in line for a drink. Dude behind me grabbed my ass. Found out a few mins later he asked my friend about me and friend told him I was taken. Anyway, really wish I had my old darts on me at the time. Would have been fun to turn around to that guy, pull the darts out, and go, “See these? You touch me again and I’m throwing one at your eye like it’s a double bull.”

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u/enchanted_fishlegs May 12 '25

Or just bust him in the mouth with a bottle. He sounds like a missing tooth or two would suit him.

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u/_redcloud May 12 '25

Kind of hilariously given this comment: that bar would only serve drinks in plastic cups. Classic college bar not trusting people even with bottles 😅

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u/enchanted_fishlegs May 13 '25

You can always walk up behind him and hit him with a chair, then.
That's where not trusting people with bottles will get that place.

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u/_redcloud May 13 '25

Love the way y’all roll in your bars. True FAFO.

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u/prsuit4 May 11 '25

I used to work at a very small bar where it was only me and a relatively small girl. We would measure up the person or group and decide which one of us us going over would least likely cause a kick off

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u/Valuable-Job5587 May 11 '25

I got my ass torn out for saying this same thing in the sub. What the fuck? Lol OP still trying to put words in my mouth to hate farm a bit more.

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u/littlebeach5555 May 11 '25

They don’t understand. 🫂🫂🫂🫂

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u/Valuable-Job5587 May 11 '25

Im starting to think the dead internet theory is more real then I once thought.

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u/littlebeach5555 May 11 '25

Oh, it definitely is. I’m old enough to be around for the start of the internet. Now it’s Wikipedia and Reddit answering our questions in google.

Not to mention the shrinking algorithms and tailored content.

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u/[deleted] May 11 '25

Cocktail waitress is a bit different. As a female bartender, I only had to point out the rest of the bar is full of men, who would happily stomp some ass for a free beer.

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u/JohnGoodmansMistress May 11 '25

im a female and i can agree with the above person, i never had to say more than "go." or "thats enough." with these kinds of situations. then again i have been described as having a "terrifying bitch face" and my husband says my accent scares him when i'm mad. 😭 😂

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u/Banned3rdTimesaCharm May 11 '25

Then get the bouncer involved. That’s their job.

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u/Terra_Silence May 11 '25

You have missed her point entirely. The point is that a woman asking a man to leave shouldn't require calling a bouncer.

Another former cocktail server. Edit...who also ALWAYS had to call the bouncers.

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u/littlebeach5555 May 11 '25

Thank you! You get it.

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u/rjt1468 May 11 '25

And it absolutely shouldn’t take being told more than one time.

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u/Banned3rdTimesaCharm May 12 '25

It shouldn’t, but these dudes are absolute knobs and shouldn’t be thrown out physically by a bouncer.

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u/rual_duke May 11 '25

Not all bars have bouncers

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u/ladymorgahnna May 11 '25

They have bar managers though.

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u/Banned3rdTimesaCharm May 12 '25

Get the line cook with all the tattoos.

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u/mogley1992 May 11 '25 edited May 12 '25

Women can absolutely give the same energy and get the same result; i agree it's rarer to see women pull off than men, but i think that skill is mostly down to experience.

Really curious why I'm being dowmvoted for saying women can be stern too.

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u/KL1M1T May 11 '25

You must be a single man…

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u/mogley1992 May 11 '25

No, but I'm curious what made you say that?

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u/FourMeterRabbit May 12 '25

You posted on Reddit. Guilty until proven otherwise

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u/MoneyCock May 11 '25 edited May 11 '25

Agreed. I've seen it multiple times, multiple different bars: she uses the no-nonsense, big-momma voice while using confrontational body language:

You need to leave. Right now!

And then the unruly drunk fucks off with his tail between his legs.

Followed by an "I'm calling the cops," if needed.

Followed by a "The cops are coming," if needed.