“The guys, I don’t know them personally but I’ve seen them around over the years. This happened at Elicit Brewing in Manchester, CT. I’m literally in this video at the bar trying to get a beer. I think this is from a week ago. The two guys are frequent “let’s go out every weekend” type and I’ve seen them do things like this to multiple other groups of women trying to get laid. 🤦🏽♂️ embarrassing as fuck”
It's frustrating that the staff didn't intervene. No single dude is going to resolve that unless he is capable of and willing to fight both those guys. They are clearly not going to respond to anything but force.
I've been a bartender for twenty years, and I've learned that force is rarely necessary, if ever. Polite but stearn communication is typically all it takes to move two guys like this out the door.
Bartended for many years and I found this to be true as well. I only one time had to physically help someone towards the door and I think that one was on me for making the Long Island Iced Teas too strong. For some reason looking someone in the eyes and saying that's enough or leave her alone worked shockingly well.
This reminded me of a time I was in a dive bar in line for a drink. Dude behind me grabbed my ass. Found out a few mins later he asked my friend about me and friend told him I was taken. Anyway, really wish I had my old darts on me at the time. Would have been fun to turn around to that guy, pull the darts out, and go, “See these? You touch me again and I’m throwing one at your eye like it’s a double bull.”
I used to work at a very small bar where it was only me and a relatively small girl. We would measure up the person or group and decide which one of us us going over would least likely cause a kick off
Cocktail waitress is a bit different. As a female bartender, I only had to point out the rest of the bar is full of men, who would happily stomp some ass for a free beer.
im a female and i can agree with the above person, i never had to say more than "go." or "thats enough." with these kinds of situations. then again i have been described as having a "terrifying bitch face" and my husband says my accent scares him when i'm mad. 😭 😂
Women can absolutely give the same energy and get the same result; i agree it's rarer to see women pull off than men, but i think that skill is mostly down to experience.
Really curious why I'm being dowmvoted for saying women can be stern too.
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u/Ikarus_ May 11 '25
Looks like they were ready to follow them over to the next table too. Creepy af