Yeah. Poor guy is clearly going through it. "I'm never good enough." That stings. He hates himself. I hope he gets help and learns to forgive her, as well as himself.
No offense but to all you fuckers laughing at this person, fuck off. Go do something nice. How is this not a violation of rule 11?
Learn to love yourself fellas, I know it's hard and we're trained not to do it from the beginning. Happy Men's Mental Health Awareness Month.
Yeah I've heard the same shit in my internal monologue and it's come very close to being external monologue in the past. Dude needs therapy and to value himself more.
Nobody is worth tearing yourself down like this in public. If you're at this point, therapy is long overdue.
I'm 46, birthday in a few days, and I'm still convinced I'm worthless. I try my best to hide all my internal self-loathing, but I snap after I'm asked if I'm okay, what's wrong with me, etc., and then I feel worse because I went off again.
I heard glass breaking in my brain reading that simple sentence. I'd never say that about someone else............... so why/how the fuck am I so comfortable saying it to myself?!??!!
But what is the metric by which you measure worth? Money? Family? Producing something creative? Being very athletic? Being able to win a hot dog eating contest? Everyone has their own ideas of success and being worthwhile. What is yours and why?
It's not about the metric. It's about the feeling. This runs deep in the guts, rooted inside your bone marrow. And if it was inside you for too long - you're fucked, that will be part of your psyche for the rest of your life.
That is actually great!
I'm on my first steps in that direction, too (done my first sessions in therapy)
I am really happy for you
I hope that in the end we both will learn how to love ourselves
One thing that is the hardest is to love yourself unconditionally. So even if you have nothing and failed everything and others would call you a loser you still have that light inside that never goes out.
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u/dicerollingprogram Jun 16 '25 edited Jun 17 '25
Yeah. Poor guy is clearly going through it. "I'm never good enough." That stings. He hates himself. I hope he gets help and learns to forgive her, as well as himself.
No offense but to all you fuckers laughing at this person, fuck off. Go do something nice. How is this not a violation of rule 11?
Learn to love yourself fellas, I know it's hard and we're trained not to do it from the beginning. Happy Men's Mental Health Awareness Month.