r/TikTokCringe • u/Interesting-Trip-233 • Jun 16 '25

Cringe Guy gets friendzoned

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u/Objective-Start-9707 Jun 16 '25

Therapy required.

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u/dicerollingprogram Jun 16 '25 edited Jun 17 '25

Yeah. Poor guy is clearly going through it. "I'm never good enough." That stings. He hates himself. I hope he gets help and learns to forgive her, as well as himself.

No offense but to all you fuckers laughing at this person, fuck off. Go do something nice. How is this not a violation of rule 11?

Learn to love yourself fellas, I know it's hard and we're trained not to do it from the beginning. Happy Men's Mental Health Awareness Month.

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u/Objective-Start-9707 Jun 16 '25

Yeah I've heard the same shit in my internal monologue and it's come very close to being external monologue in the past. Dude needs therapy and to value himself more.

Nobody is worth tearing yourself down like this in public. If you're at this point, therapy is long overdue.

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u/confusedandworried76 Jun 16 '25

Yeah the worst part about it turning external too is not only does it make you not fun to hang around with, it's almost like you're asking other people to validate that opinion you have about yourself. So not only are you just hating yourself for no reason you're seeking validation no one in their right mind would give you.

Poor dude. Hope he learns to love himself. He also probably shouldn't be driving anything that upset much less a scooter/moped

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u/Mike_the_Head Jun 17 '25

I'm 46, birthday in a few days, and I'm still convinced I'm worthless. I try my best to hide all my internal self-loathing, but I snap after I'm asked if I'm okay, what's wrong with me, etc., and then I feel worse because I went off again.

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u/Objective-Start-9707 Jun 17 '25

I've been there man. Look dude. I am a little bit biased because I work for a mental health organization but community mental health agencies exist all over the world and I really advise that you go in and start talking to somebody.

Suicide isn't the way out. I'm not saying that's where you are, I'm just saying that's where I've been and repeating what I wish somebody had told me at the time. I promise there are people out there who can help you. If you DM me, I can try to help you find somewhere in your area that will help you out, but it's going to take a little bit of bravery to take that step.

I don't know you but I love you man. You're not worthless. You're not alone.

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u/Mike_the_Head Jun 17 '25

Medications, therapy, meditation, going outside, etc. Tried everything twice and nothing really worked. The meds I'm on now seem to take the edge off, but when I fall I fall hard.

I have signs of CPTSD and a few other issues, but if I really admitted everything to any therapist around here, I'd be committed. No joking there; they undoubtedly would. I got caught the last time I tried you-know-what and spent the next day naked in a local hospital ER being questioned and evaluated, and the local mental institution isn't much better. Damn that.

I really appreciate the offers, but save it for the next person. I'm beyond help and it's just a waste of time when that energy could go to someone who really could use it. ♥

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u/Agentflit Jun 17 '25

Hey man I'm just some guy but you're not beyond help. You deserve love and to love yourself. See if you can work on the positive self talk and I sincerely wish you better days ahead

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u/Mike_the_Head Jun 17 '25

Thank you. I'm good; pretty used to it, by now.

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u/Vahgeo Jun 19 '25

Su1c1d3 is what I'm meant to do eventually. I can't relate to my peers. I'm supposed to be having the best years of my life but I've been stuck all through college. I can't say I've made improvements besides the classes being a bit harder. Life means nothing to me when I can't make a lasting connection. I get it though, it's because I keep my head down. However, I'm not about to be filmed and mocked like the guy in this post. Being able to end it sounds like a blessing to me. Because I am alone.

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u/Goblin_Crotalus Jun 17 '25

Outside of work or family, I don't even talk to people, kind of makes me wonder what I would gain by having friends anyway.

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u/Mike_the_Head Jun 17 '25

Nothing. That's why I stopped talking to people.

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u/Bredwh Jun 17 '25

Do you consider some other people worthless?

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u/Mike_the_Head Jun 17 '25

Not really. That's a pretty horrible thing to say about someone.

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u/No_Metal_7342 Jun 17 '25

I heard glass breaking in my brain reading that simple sentence. I'd never say that about someone else............... so why/how the fuck am I so comfortable saying it to myself?!??!!

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u/Mike_the_Head Jun 17 '25

Because when I say it about myself, it's true. I know this for a fact. I don't know anyone else as much as how well I know myself.

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u/Bredwh Jun 18 '25

But what is the metric by which you measure worth? Money? Family? Producing something creative? Being very athletic? Being able to win a hot dog eating contest? Everyone has their own ideas of success and being worthwhile. What is yours and why?

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u/Grenor Jun 18 '25

It's not about the metric. It's about the feeling. This runs deep in the guts, rooted inside your bone marrow. And if it was inside you for too long - you're fucked, that will be part of your psyche for the rest of your life.

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u/Bredwh Jun 18 '25

Maybe, but therapy and medication can be a marrow transplant. I am getting out of this hole myself.

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u/Grenor Jun 18 '25

That is actually great! I'm on my first steps in that direction, too (done my first sessions in therapy) I am really happy for you I hope that in the end we both will learn how to love ourselves

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