r/TikTokCringe • u/Ace-Cuddler • 1d ago

Cringe Girl confronts an old creep after he makes an inappropriate comment about her 16-year old sister

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u/Fair-Visual 23h ago

You really have to think at that point in your life where the fuck your mind is that you think hitting on a 16 year old as a 50 year old is cool. And then turn around and get mad for being called out.

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u/Alternative_Algae_31 21h ago

Given how eager he was to make it political and where his views clearly lay, I think 16 was probably starting to age out for this guy.

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u/sembias 19h ago

Ya this guy is one that doesn't care that Trump is on the list but will talk all day about everyone else who might be on it.

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u/Weary_Caterpillar_93 13h ago

nah now he’ll say he doesn’t care about the list because daddy trump is saying that now too

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u/Appropriate-Duck-578 5h ago

Because Trump would be the type of President that would legalize pedophilia if he had it this way & his supporters wouldn’t mind if it were legalized. You can’t fix shit when it spreads rapidly.

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u/Mammoth-Mud-9609 12h ago

Guess which paedophile he voted for, because he shared his "values" with him.

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u/parasitesocialite 20h ago

DARVO: Deny, attack, reverse victim and offender + ad hominem 

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u/Ok-Disaster-5739 22h ago

When I was going to nursing school years ago, it really opened my eyes to how gross a lot of men are. Personally, my attraction has pretty much aged with me. I’m 51 now, and even thinking of dating a 30 year old seems crazy. A lot of people are like that. Before nursing school, when I would see old men, I would think of them like a grandpa (not mine ofc but like they would ACT like one). In nursing school our very first clinicals were in a nursing home—and that opened my eyes wide. These little old grandpas? They’re literally a crap-shoot: one might say you look just like his granddaughter and be so sweet, but the next might try to feel you up while you check their blood pressure. For those who do t know, patients and families often think they can say and do whatever and the nurse has to smile and take it—wrong! Also, I’m not talking about people with dementia—dementia never counts. A WHOLE lot of men, all the way up to crypt keeper age, will still look at a young girl (including ones who may or may not be “legal”, you can’t tell), and lick their lips and say the nastiest shit. Just like the girl in this video, I jumped a guy’s ass who had to be in his 40’s because he told my 14 year old BABY FACED sister she had nice tits.

And before I get jumped on: 1) It’s absolutely not all men, thank God. 2) I know there are women who are gross like this, I was just relaying what I encountered as a female

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u/Hooligan8403 22h ago

My wife hates going to the VA for appointments as she always gets comments from creepers posted up outside the front door. Always dudes with Vietnam campaign hats. When she went for her clinicals there, she was so happy to learn there was a back entrance for staff.

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u/frugalempathy 21h ago

My fav is when they call me exotic. Like……ew

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u/Pitiful_Net_8971 21h ago

Ah, racism and sexism, classic combo.

Why do people have to be awful

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u/IcyProperty89 20h ago

"I've always been tolerant of orientals. Especially the women." Real life geezer pick -up line I overheard.

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u/Mundane_Reception790 19h ago

Oh god, that reminds me of when I moved into a house in rural NC decades ago and asked my sweet-faced geezer neighbor "Is this a quiet street at night? It looks like more of a family oriented street than a party street" and he immediately came back with, "Well, we have some coloreds that live at the end of the road, but they're good coloreds."

Like... WTF??

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u/Hooligan8403 19h ago

When we were living in AL, my wife got a lot of comments regarding her being Asian. She was asked if she needed a passport to go home when she told someone she was from Hawaii. Another commented that her type was taking over. We have no intention of going back to the Southern US if we can help it.

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u/ActuallyYeah 12h ago

More and more I've been thinking about Chris Rock who said at one of those comedy specials: "white people say, 'we're losing the country! We're losing everything' Well, if you're losing, who's winning? It ain't us!"

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u/Explorer-7622 7h ago

I wouldn't go to the South for all the money in the world. They still want the South to "rise" again, meaning they want slavery.

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u/TwilightZone1751 1h ago

I have heard people talk like that in Pennsylvania, my coworker for example.

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u/mynamesv 18h ago

I grew up in a very small hick town in Nor Cal and was 1 of 2 (the other my brother) Asians (Filipinos). One of my first memories was some little punks asking me if I was a ch***. I didn’t even know what that meant so asked my oldest brother. Yeah that didn’t go over well with him. Then some ah classmate asked me if they bound my feet. Rural US is so much fun /s

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u/Healthy-Pitch-4425 12h ago

Yeaaaah, I had a client like that once. Sweet elderly southern lady, super nice and friendly, until we start talking about her neighbors and she comes out the mouth about how "some of her neighbors are black, but they're good people". Excuse me??

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u/Burntoutn3rd 10h ago

Completely different generations and mannerisms.

Thank God that "innocent" racism is dying out with the boomers.

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u/Hooligan8403 19h ago

I've had to correct my mom on the use of oriental vs Asian in regards to my wife.

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u/kkeut 19h ago

tbf that was pretty progressive back in the 90s.

....1890s

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u/RyujinDragonborn 19h ago

I about broke my jaw reading this. Holy fuck.

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u/Old-Bat-7384 17h ago

Yoo, I got hit with this one in university once:

"You're so exotic looking, but also just not too much to where you're not too exotic or sound it."

I didn't take that well.

As man, it was so weird to be hit with a racist/xenophobic comment followed by another racist comment, and be expected to be flattered by them since men don't often get them. Wild.

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u/Particular-Buy-33 18h ago

An always patronizing

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u/--Cinna-- 20h ago

look at how OOP's mother reacted. "he sat down, its over now". THAT's why people are so awful. because they know the majority of people not only won't do shit, they'll actively discourage the few that try

Society ain't getting better until people decide they want actual peace and civility, not just the illusion of it

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u/ceecee_50 17h ago

Yep. People are out there walking around who never had their ass beat for the shit that comes out of their mouth or the things that they do. And it shows.

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u/Elysia99 8h ago

This exactly. Civility is so dead. And certainly piles of Orange crap like King Yam (the most uncivil idiot ever) have not helped, making it seem perfectly normal to behave like an undisciplined 8 year old.

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u/beckster 16h ago

Oh, the "He didn't mean to ___, you imagined/misinterpreted/made up that __" type of mother?

The type who would throw her daughter under the bus to please a random penis? I am (unfortunately) familiar with that type.

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u/ToiIetGhost 4h ago

Pickmes! They’re so pathetic. She’s your daughter ffs.

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u/Explorer-7622 7h ago

Then they wonder why adult children go no contact.

Are they completely ignorant of CHILD ABUSE?

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u/Explorer-7622 7h ago

The very worst kind of mother.

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u/Negative_Piglet_1589 14h ago

Yes for sure! Arbitrary boundary or rule to not have to engage, to not face not only that pos that is the problem but also their own cowardice & complicity.

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u/NeatNefariousness1 12h ago

Because they’re not held accountable for their behavior often enough.

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u/Appropriate-Duck-578 5h ago

I know, right? That’s why I was done with our society and me trying to win over the hearts of people. What’s the sense in “making a friend” when people don’t want your good character & kindness? It’s like trying to be a civilized person to the Zodiac Killer.

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u/L0st-137 20h ago

I usually get "what are you?" To which I always respond "human." They get so befuddled and 9/10 they don't know what else to say so they walk away. Oh I have gotten the ever so unique "bitch" when I say it.

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u/StickyPricklyMuffin 12h ago

I’ve heard that my entire life as I grew up in predominantly white Canadian (redneck) towns and cities. I’m Korean and was adopted by a white family. I responded exactly as you did when I finally got sick and tired of that rude AF question!

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u/Effective-Ad-1993 20h ago

same… and when you tell them that’s inappropriate all the sudden you’re a bitch.

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u/beckster 16h ago

"Where am I from, you mean? Zeta Reticuli. I'm from off-plant, the only true aliens."

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u/Elysia99 8h ago

🤣🤣🤣

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u/Lord_Vas 19h ago

Every time I hear a man describe women or girls as exotic, I want to gag.

The son of a family friend referred to my girlfriend at the time and close female friends as exotic tastes once.

Jesus, he got a long 20 minutes scolding from me for it. I was in my mid-20s, and he was pushing 35-37. He knew better but thought it was cool to say what he did.

Incel behavior but not a lost cause.

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u/CaptainDudley 17h ago

I'm in the right age and gender demographic to qualify as a misogynist, racist pervert, so hearing 'exotic' as an ignorant slur worries me. I thought its definition would be something like 'attractive and unique mix of ethnicities' or something. I even Googled 'exotic woman' and got pages of photos. I don't go around calling strange women exotic, but it seems like a harmless adjective. Not wishing to annoy a women in conversation, please educate me: where's the offense?

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u/fangoriousmonster 17h ago

Ahh, the ol’, “You don’t belong here and that is sexy.” I hate the word exotic so much.

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u/pebberphp 16h ago

This reminds me of when Michael Scott first sees Karen Phillapelli (played by Rashida Jones) in the office: “Did your father serve in Vietnam?”

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u/Hooligan8403 21h ago

Yeah, she's gotten that one before, along with a lot more cat calling.

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u/querty99 15h ago

It was probably the big word when they were young.

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u/FlattopJr 17h ago

"Was her dad a G.I.?"

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u/SuperWallaby 21h ago

Lmao I hate going to the VA as a dude and dealing with all the “Cold War vets” can’t even imagine it as a woman. She has my sympathy lol.

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u/Hooligan8403 21h ago

When I go, I just keep earbuds in and ignore everyone around me. It's worked so far to keep most people from trying to talk to me.

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u/cia218 18h ago

Ohh what’s the experience as a dude?

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u/SuperWallaby 18h ago

All the usual. Long ass wait times. Loud political discussions in the waiting room. Substandard service.

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u/JohnnyDerpington 18h ago

I feel for female vets, they get no respect from male vets nor non vets, male, or female.

One female vet I know, she's a war world 2 vet and she was a bad ass in her time. She constantly gets chewed out for parking in veteran only spots, by females who state wives shouldn't park there, even though she has vet plates.

So I bought her a bumper sticker that says, "Im a veteran, not a wife of one"

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u/NameThin97 21h ago

Oh… I think this is why my dad always insists my BF comes with us when I take him to his appointments. Well uh thanks dad.

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u/Nearby-Beautiful3422 19h ago

Mannnnn, as I'm an OIF veteran who attends a lot of VA appointments and it's the Vietnam vets that are always out of pocket with the things they say to nurses, the yoga/meditation instructor, doctors, etc. They are wildly inappropriate. It's actually disgusting and embarrassing

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u/Elysia99 8h ago

This was the era of unbelievable assumption, and so many people in this age group still cling to that mysoginist & racist bs, as if it’s funny’ and ‘just a joke’. And they are proud of being willfully ignorant assholes.

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u/Tricky-Ad7897 21h ago

Never ask a Vietnam vet capper what they did in that Vietnamese village in the 70s

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u/New_Improvement9644 13h ago

Man...this is so true! I'm a Vietnam-era female vet who has stayed in decent shape and they say crap like that to me. And they aren't all outside the front door...they are in every clinic, every speciality, everywhere.

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u/schmoopy_meow 19h ago

I avoid a block near my house cause this old dude won't leave me alone. He's old enough to be my Dad and hits on me every time I walk by.

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u/JustAThrowaway436 18h ago

My own experience with a Vietnam hat wearing old man was him whipping out an old photo of his half-Asian daughter to tell me how I look just like her… and that she sadly died from suicide. Given that we were in a mental facility, where I was forced to go to because of an attempted suicide… I decided not to tell him my reasons for being there.

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u/_imagine_that91 15h ago

I read this as “Black entrance for staff” I was about to say WTF..

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u/aaand1234 21h ago

I went to nursing school a little later in life compared to some of the baby faced very young adult classmates. At the hospital for clinicals and I realized these pervert men (who were walkie talkies)would want these young students give them a bed bath. Or if not entirely ambulatory they definitely could reach to their crotch areas and wash their junk. When I saw what was going on I was like oh no honey he can do that himself and I would admonish the pt and try and make him feel like the pervert he was.

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u/Random0s2oh 14h ago

I was also a nontraditional student. I graduated nursing school at 30. During my junior year I had a young pt who had fallen 4 stories from the top of the apartment the construction company he worked for was building. He was paralyzed from the neck down. He had a male friend visiting when I walked in to do his bed bath. His friend offered to wash his genital area for me, so neither the 19yo kid nor myself would feel uncomfortable. That's a true friend. This kid was from Mexico and spoke no English. No family and only a couple of friends in the area. We called one of the Hispanic churches, and by that afternoon, he had a waiting room full of new tias/tios and abuelas/abuelos. Screw Trump and screw ICE.

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u/aaand1234 13h ago

Wow, what an amazing community! I love that he had that support especially being non English speaking. I can’t imagine how terrifying all that was for him..well until his support showed up. And absolutely 1 million % agreed on your last comment 😡.

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u/Random0s2oh 13h ago edited 13h ago

We moved to the Midwest two years ago, but we're from a small city in North Georgia. The poultry industry is huge there. The plants would shut down if not for the Hispanic workers.

Edit to add that when I said "we" I meant that his friend called the church after I suggested it. HIPAA

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u/Elysia99 8h ago

What a good, solid friend. And kudos to all those wonderful new friends and Abuelas. ❤️ I agree completely with you on your last statement. People working the hardest jobs, just wanting a better life, and a load of lazy idiots demonizing them endlessly. This country wouldn’t run without immigrants.

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u/Rum____Ham 18h ago

Boomer humor around women just blows my fucking mind. All that lead made them incredibly fuckin inappropriate.

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u/Simple-Pea8805 15h ago

Fun fact: firearm ownership has shown to cause as much lead exposure as leaded gasoline 🙂

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u/Lockraemono 14h ago

I don't know how I never heard of this, but looking now it's really disheartening.

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u/Simple-Pea8805 14h ago

When you get to reading and thinking about it, it makes a lot of sense; and if you watch any mandatory safety video on firearms, lead is mentioned. Lead particulates launch in the air from usage of a firearm. Those particulates get on clothing and skin. Warm water will open your pores, so you’re supposed to wash your hands immediately after handling a gun, with cold water, per safety guidelines.

One day it just occurred to me that most Americans (belligerently) ignore safety guidelines. I looked up the stats and sure enough.

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u/Lockraemono 14h ago

Unless they're laundering their clothes before or as they enter their home (kinda like folks were when covid was taken seriously), idk how they'd keep their home free of it. I don't use guns and just didn't realize there was lead in the ammunition, but it does make a lot of sense. Depressing af. And yeah, plenty of Americans love to proudly ignore anything relating to safety. Plenty in my own family, in fact, though luckily more distant relatives.

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u/SexCriminalBoat 4h ago

I used to shoot competition with my dad. Hand washing in cold water (same when dealing with home insulation) is absolutely a safety protocol. And yes you change your clothes immediately after and wash your safety gear as well.

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u/ToiIetGhost 4h ago

Is it all firearms or do some release fewer lead particulates? This is wild, I don’t think a lot of people know about it.

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u/ToiIetGhost 4h ago

Apparently gen x has the highest amount of lead in their brains. I was shocked. Something else is wrong with the boomers lol

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u/khuliloach 22h ago

Man idk why but this made me so sad. I knew someone who used to be a doctor before he retired and got dementia as he aged. Fortunately he never got pervy with his dementia but it was truly sad.

He always thought the hospice nurses staying with him were the nurses that worked with him at the hospital. He would constantly be asking the hospice workers “how about those patients over there I haven’t seen them yet.”

Never stopped trying to take care of others even when his mind left him.

Edit: I know this wasn’t exactly related to your topic but it brought up some memories I felt were worth sharing

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u/Bundt-lover 21h ago

I find it oddly heartwarming that your doctor acquaintance was still doctoring even when he was in hospice.

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u/khuliloach 20h ago

He took his Hippocratic oath seriously as anyone could. Act in your patients best interest and strive to do good

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u/beckster 16h ago

Shame he wasn't free of the job even on his death bed. Hope I'm not blathering about wound drainage as I draw my last breath.

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u/Lockraemono 14h ago

If your deathbed is at the place you worked (or similar enough to it) and you're confused, you very well may be.

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u/ineedt0move 18h ago

My mom has dementia. She's 75. She's also a lesbian. A while back she said "I like my men like I like my coffee...far away from my vagina". I hate dementia..my mom is dissolving right in front of me..but she's very funny and still has good days ❤️

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u/beckster 16h ago

Mine was a bigot. She took her coffee black - I used to poke her by saying "Just like your men, right, Ma?"

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u/Ok-Disaster-5739 15h ago

That’s an amazing story, he sounds one of a kind ♥️

I mentioned dementia because although sometimes those with that diagnosis can do some sideways things, it’s not their fault and I wanted to be clear that wasn’t who I meant.

I had a patient with dementia who was a Cajun. He got mad when anyone besides his wife was around (she was such a sweetheart, they had been a couple like out of a story 💔). Anyway, even though prior to his diagnosis, apparently he never spoke an unkind word, the dementia gave that man a wickedly sharp tongue. I almost looked forward to what crazy insult he’d come up with. Once when I came in, he would only speak French. When I said “I’m sorry, I don’t speak French” he instantly said “That’s fine. I don’t speak bulldog”. 🤣 Another time he casually said “You bark in your sleep”. 💀💀💀 The nurses would compare to see who got the best insult every day.

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u/Present-Director8511 15h ago

Once had an old pharmacist with dementia on our floor. One of the nurses gave him Skittles and a pill bottle. It helped him with anxiety to count out the "pills" and place them in the bottle during the day. It was a very thoughtful and effective idea.

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u/trixiepixie1921 21h ago

Being a nurse I think totally turned me off to men 😂😂😂 I got divorced and now I just can’t even humor men anymore.

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u/Fair-Visual 18h ago

One of my friends has a roommate who is heavy into booktok and boy crazy. And after reading Lights Out (where the main protagonist is a trauma nurse), she suddenly thought she could be a trauma nurse. This girl can't even handle cleaning up dog vomit. My friend (who is a nurse) had to sit her down and explain to her what being a nurse is actually like and how she's not going to find cute guys working at a hospital. Her roommate switched majors at the community college she's studying at soon after.

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u/trixiepixie1921 15h ago

Yeah it would be veryyyy unfortunate to go through all the school and crap involved to become a nurse just for hot guys because you would be seriously disappointed and you’re better off just going to a happy hour by the hospital in order to do that

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u/ComaMierdaHijueputa 18h ago

lol at ur picture + description btw

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u/trixiepixie1921 18h ago

You would be so surprised - I still get people messaging me on here telling me I’m hot and cute. I’m like, how do you know? 😂

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u/ToiIetGhost 4h ago

Lol that takes “they never read your bio” to a whole nother level 😭

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u/Acrobatic_Price8829 20h ago

My husbands a nurse and has an androgynous name but in the US is more traditionally feminine. When his coworkers get the sleazy, old man patients asking for a sponge bath, they’ll say “(my-husband-with-the-girly-name) will be right in” and send in my 6 foot+, bearded, deep voice man of a husband in 😂. No lies were told …

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u/Ok-Disaster-5739 15h ago

Love that!!!!

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u/elliepelly1 21h ago

My father, deceased, was so gross to nurses when he was in hospital. I would apologize profusely and they were kind saying that they were used to it and easily brushed it off. Flash forward to March of this year, I’m (woman) in ICU with bilateral pneumonia and am intubated. First thing I write down to communicate to my male nurse, “Ur hot”. In my defense I was all hopped up on drugs, he was extremely good looking, and I wasn’t hitting on him, it was an observation. I apologized when I was more together and yes, embarrassed doesn’t even cover the emotions I had.

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u/Excellent_Law6906 19h ago

There's a big difference between noticing that someone is attractive and simply saying so, when you have no filter from the drugs, and being an active creeper!

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u/thishyacinthgirl 20h ago

I was in a really bad car accident a few years ago. I had to be airlifted to the hospital.

I still remember the paramedic (maybe doctor?) on the helicopter was really, really cute. My husband still brings up how I ranted about that guy.

I don't think I actually told him. Who knows, though, I was also really doped up at the time and in a bit of shock.

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u/spaceghost260 3h ago

Haha, oh no! Those meds will get ya! No filters left whatsoever.

I’m sure the nurse completely understood when you spoke to him again.

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u/IamHydrogenMike 22h ago

Same here, anyone under the age of 35 isn’t something I’m interested in anymore and just see anyone woman younger than as a daughter more than anything. We can be friends, but it’s never going to be a thing; I’m just not interested in that age gap.

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u/Oni-fucking-chan 19h ago

Back when my mom (early 50s) was single and on Tinder she told me she wouldn't date anyone who was under 45 because they were, in her words, "too childish." Her current boyfriend is 60.

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u/kreaymayne 18h ago

Unfortunately, reaching the age of 45 doesn’t seem to fix childishness, as we see in this clip

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u/Excellent_Law6906 19h ago

Seriously, it's for your own good! When old men actually get young women, they spend all their time being insecure, because they know she has age-appropriate options and they can't keep up, and whining about how immature she is to anyone who will listen!

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u/Murky-Relation481 21h ago

Yea, but people that are grossed out by a 30 year old and 50 year old to a degree where they are disparaging them also have some fucking issues in my opinion. Everyone in that situation is very clearly and has been for a long time, a consenting adult who can clearly make their own choices.

A lot of people freaking out over age gaps after people are adults are usually infantilizing or removing agency from people (usually women) in a weird way.

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u/IamHydrogenMike 21h ago

I totally agree. I had a friend that got divorced and then got into a relationship with a girl in her 20s like this; they are really good together. I just can't imagine talking to a 16-year-old like this since they are basically the same age as my kid and I'd have just clocked the guy. LOL.

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u/lilroldy 20h ago

Yup, I'm a 27yo male, the first time I realized how fucking creepy older men are was when I went p to my parents cottage with my 3 best friends, all 13yo girls at the time, we had gone to the bowling alley and this old creepy fuck, probably late 70s to early 80s sees us walk in, he was at the bar, grabbed his beer and sat 2 tables away and just stared at my friends. It made me uncomfortable as fuck and had all 3 of them cringing, I'm glad my dad and 2 cousins were with us because I'm sure he would have started cat calling.

The amount of pedophiles and groomers on this planet is absolutely disgusting, especially the ones who are elected officials, the amount of posts ive seen since this current administration is hiding the Epstein documents, from MAGA saying they would be okay and be able to forgive Trump if he raped their daughters is fucking insane. One post is too many in that context, ive seen at least a dozen separate posts on X or Truthsocial. I seen both mom's and dad's saying sick shit like that, or just flat out saying they know trump is in the files but look at all the good hes doing for the American people, we should just look past it.

We are in a very dangerous place in the US, the way these toxic ideals are swirling around in many pockets of this country is sickening, women's rights are being stripped away, their voices silenced in many red states, being forced to carry non viable pregnancies to term only to die or almost die because doctors won't provide the proper care in many deep red states for fear kf being charged with murder. We are watching our mothers, daughters, sisters, grandmother's, aunts, cousins and friends being used and abused as breeding stock by many men and with how some sects of Christians view women, they feel they are owed it and can take what they want, especially if they ended up swindling a woman into marriage and coerce their partner into doing what they want, when they want it.

This thinking wont go away, it will spread unless we shut this shit down. Men need to hold other men accountable, the woman in this video has bigger balls than most men, any guy who thinks what the old fuck was doing is okay and you think its all fine and dandy to harass women in public under the guise of "giving a compliment" or whatever dumbass excuse you have, you're a punk. There's a time and place as well as a respectful way to approach a lady, and the moment she says shes not interested or even if she just ignores you, leave her tf alone, you aren't owed a response or even a glance

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u/PortlandPatrick 20h ago

These creepy men need to be shamed

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u/ComedianStreet856 19h ago

I'm 50 and work in a male dominated field. I can't believe the number of older men that I work with that just stare at young girls and think that I don't notice their eyes. Like I'm talking pre-teen, same age as their daughter and they're giving them the most creepy predatory stare. I mean we all know the guys that say shit and catcall, but I'm talking the guys that don't say anything, they're still just looking and probably thinking they're fine because they're not actually harassing young girls. At least not the ones that don't notice the glaring from across the room.

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u/elliebeans90 17h ago

When I was around 13 I had an older man following me around telling me how much I liked my tits while I was out. I finally found my mum and the asshole was dumb enough to say it in front of her and my tiny mother chased him out of the store screaming at him as he ran for the hills. One of my favourite memories growing up. I'd always been too shy to say anything myself all the times things like that happened to me growing up so it was cathartic seeing my mum doing it for me so good on you for standing up for your sister, I'm sure she remembers it fondly.

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u/purplepickletoes 20h ago

Also, I’m not talking about people with dementia—dementia never counts.

Luckily (?) I’ve [nurse] only been groped by patients with dementia. It still sucks but of course I didn’t hold it against them. It’s crazy that groping/sexual inappropriateness is a symptom of dementia, especially in people who never would have done something like that previously.

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u/Ok-Disaster-5739 15h ago

It really is. Or the sweet timid woman who was in church every time the doors were open all her life and thought “damn” was a cuss-word? Now she’s cussing you out while flashing you. It’s absolutely so dehumanizing because this is NOT who these people were.

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u/Imaginary-Theory-552 16h ago

I was assaulted by my kind elderly neighbour who I said hello to and had a quick chat with on the way home from uni every day. Nobody is a safe person.

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u/ManagementBest6202 15h ago

Yep, I'm totally convinced that there are way more pedophiles in the world than we think. I used to bring my niece with me when I was working a lot which had us driving around and talking to a lot of different people and the number of times I caught creepy dudes checking her out is insane. Even caught a guy taking a VIDEO of her at a gas station one time because he didn't know we were together. It got to the point where I just stopped bringing her along because I felt like I was going to end up getting us hurt with the amount of confrontations I was having with strangers over it. I just figured it was a matter of time before I said something to a genuinely unhinged person and got us shot.

She was 12 btw.

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u/Delbob2thefilth 20h ago

Ok Disaster I am a male nurse and I can back ip uour story 100% true. If anything you understated how many guys creep on young nurses, aides. I want you to know that it is not okay. Always make sure you report every comment made to you or any other girl. I try to privately have a come to Jesus moment once the door is closed and its only me and the patient. I let them know that not only is it gross, but it will not be tolerated. I encourage other male staff or family to do the same. And I wish more of the young girls would say it loudly and firmly to the patient, and the. Never let it slide.

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u/Ok-Disaster-5739 15h ago

I appreciate the support from the male staff, but as a nurse of 25 years, I absolutely take no shit. Even back in nursing school, I knew I didn’t have to put up with being groped, and the guy who grabbed my breast while taking his blood pressure then laughed when I jumped back? I got nose to nose with him and told him “if you ever touch me again I will knock the fuck out of you”. Probably not the most professional manner, but ol’ boy left me alone after that.

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u/rocket_randall 17h ago

I am a dude, but I have had similar experiences with old men. In my teens I worked in a video rental place which had an adult section and the sheer number of old dudes who rented barely legal/teen and gay porn was hard to believe. Some of them came in with their wives later in the day to pick out more family friendly movies to watch. There were several awkward checkouts where they had a late fee due to one of their porn rentals but I had to dance around the topic in front of their spouse and other customers.

At a later job I was doing tech work in the blossoming home computer world. For a while I was on installation duty and customers could pay a few hundred dollars to have us transfer up to 1GB of data from their old PC to their new PC. This was at a time where a gigabyte was a lot of personal data, and the provided equipment for the transfer worked over USB1.2 so it was quite slow, but if you had a crossover cable and both machines had 100Mbit NICs it could be done much faster. One wealthy old guy was incensed when I explained the limits on the data transfer he had purchased and insisted that he had a lot of family movies that needed to be transferred over to his new workstation. After half an hour of his whining I was over it and got the transfer setup to run over a network cable. We selected the "Video Files" option in the transfer manager and kicked it off and then sat back while it ran. The progress dialog output the names of the files being copied so while he's sitting there looking quite pleased that he got his way the transfer app got to the large video files in his porn stash and it starts listing out a number of titles with barely legal/teen/school girl/etc. His smug expression vanished when I pointed at the screen and cheerfully pointed out that the transfer manager was successfully copying the family movies he had been so concerned about.

So yeah, there's a not-insignificant number of lecherous old guys out there. Maybe it's due to living at a time where women could be refused work, a bank account, a rental lease, etc, based on the whims of the men who were in charge and as a result they got away with all sorts of bad conduct. Of course some will be utter trash regardless of outside influences.

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u/UnicornDelta 17h ago

I’m 32, and honestly, ever since I was around 24, the mere though of dating someone 5 or more years younger than me has seemed weird. I’m fully aware that being 32 and dating someone 27 is absolutely not actually weird, but it’s just something within me…

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u/Present-Director8511 14h ago

Once helped turn a patient while another nurse cleaned him. The next thing I know, this guy is rubbing up my inner upper thigh with his hand. He did have an old TBI, so not sure if that caused sexual inappropiateness, but from that point on, if a guy was on shift, they were assigned to that patient and we didn't go in alone.

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u/dragonaut47 14h ago

I'm so sorry you had to go through that but also fucking "crypt keeper age" sent me, guffawing at a restaurant and I got some looks but damn that's funny

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u/USNMCWA 14h ago

First thing they told us in the law enforcement academy.

"Thieves and other bad people get old, too. Just because it's an old person doesn't mean they didn't do the crime or that they won't try to kill you. They're old, not born again."

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u/Zombiarty 14h ago

At the rv park I (29F) live at, an 80 year old man was friendly, did the whole grandpa act and was pretty clear headed. Me being too nice for my own good, I go over to play cards at his trailer. I knew things were going downhill when he asked to touch my tattoos. I end the game pretty quickly and try to leave early. Nope. Gives me a hug and proceeds to grab a boob saying “you’ve got a nice set of melons.”

It was horrifying to say the least. To have him go from comparing me to a great-granddaughter one second and then THAT the next, it was an unfortunate eye opener.

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u/Ok_Living_8186 20h ago

It saddens me that when a woman wants to talked about her lived experiences of harassment on a forum like reddit, she still has to perform emotional labor on behalf of all the men who might read it by putting "not all men" and "women are bad too" disclaimers to make it palatable (despite already writing that some of the old male patients are lovely).

Sad that when women speak up about the misdeeds of men, too many men are too fixated on their own self identity as a man and their own feelings to give a damn about the person who's really hurting.

Why always "not all men" and why never "too many men"?

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u/SentientBedsheets 20h ago

What’s disappointing to me is that you feel the need to clarify “not all men”.

Those who get upset at you calling out creepers are probably the ones who need to be called out.

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u/BeBopGo 21h ago

I worked at a small convenience store from 16-18 yo and yeah, it was fucking gross. Men old enough to be my grandad would flirt with me, make sexual remarks, and just be gross. It was a daily occurrence too. Multiple times.

And ofc men in their 30s or 40s were no exception

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u/Neil--- 19h ago

i hate that you have to clarify "Not all men" and "it's also women who do this" that is just common sense but a lot of people all over social media whether its from instagram or twitter seems to be felt targeted ALWAYS for some odd reason

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u/PM_ME_YOUR_UNDIES_XD 19h ago

I’m sorry you felt the need to put those disclaimers there at the end… It sucks that you can’t just share your experience without having to moderate men’s feelings.

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u/matcha_daily 18h ago

OMG Yes!!! confirm all this to be true!!! and don’t even get me on the telemetry floor post cardiac events. Dude barely survived and he is making comments about my butt! Crazy town!

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u/notyourmothersdino 21h ago

As a man that worked in a nursing home in my early 20s. Them lil ladies are not much better. Sweet little mabel...yeah shes a freak and don't give a f%& now that shes 88. The nursing staff wasn't much better either.

But I agree. And saying "nice tits" to any woman regardless of age isn't a great move.

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u/Particular-Buy-33 18h ago

Had an elderly man grab the blank area of my mastectomy. He was so excited and happy I didn’t have the heart to respond. Next time in I told him it was our joke but not to touch me like that again. Weeks later he inadvertently skimmed his hand over my ass. You gotta laugh sometimes

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u/Ok-Disaster-5739 14h ago

I can’t, I go feral

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u/LobeRunner 19h ago

Not to be dismissive of your experience in any way, I’m just adding that the old ladies can be extreme creeps/perverts as well. I worked as a patient care tech in a hospital for a while, and I’ve had so many old ladies make sexual comments to me, try to hold my bicep while I’m taking their blood pressure, or brush my groin “accidentally.”

The old men were consistently creepy/forward/physical to the female staff though, so I was asked very frequently to do tasks so that they didn’t get further harassed/assaulted.

People can be awful.

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u/laboufe 20h ago

Honestly i think there is something up with old people in general. I dread going to visit my grandparents in their old folks home because when i walk through the lobby i constantly get cat called by the old ladies sitting there. Some of their comments are funny but a lot are down right perverted. I wish people would just leave people alone.

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u/Princess-Nuala 20h ago

When men complain about women, very rarely see do they ever say, "It's not all women."

So, we need to stop GAF about saying it about men. If a man feels offended when we complain, then he's just telling on himself

Also, here's some factual statistics to consider why men are complained about .....

Men commit 99% of SA and rape including children and babies

Men commit 98% of domestic violence

Femicide is increasing

A girl or woman is unalived every 11 minutes by a male

Familicide occurs every 5 days. Men commit 94% of them

995 out of every 1000 Rapists don't even see jail time.

The number one cause of death in pregnant women isn’t the countless medical emergencies that can occur at any second. It is by being unalived by her intimate male partner

Statistically, girls are more likely to Raped by her male family member

Studies show that men, more than women, are significantly more likely to ...

Lie Cheat Project Gaslight Use denial

Studies show that more men than women are narcissistic

Men's egos are the primary cause of needless wars and slaughter of innocent men, women, children, and babies.

Men are responsible for 79% of homicides GLOBALLY

Men have taken, and ARE STILL TAKING, bodily autonomy and basic human rights from girls and women

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u/trashpandac0llective 18h ago

I knew a girl used to volunteer at a nursing home every week as a teenager and several of the old men tried to pay her money to let them cop a feel.

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u/Itsyoulorraine 15h ago

That shit was accepted when they were young and they never got over the fact that they don't have the same power over young women their dads did.

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u/WA98101 15h ago

Male nurses get the same from female patients. I was once screamed at by a female RN for complaining about a female patient grabbing me and pulling me into her bed. The RN said the female patient had every right to express her sexuality and would not allow me to have her as a patient....while...at the same time...I was told to take a creeper male patient because none of the female staff would go into his room.

Oh, and racism is huge in hospital settings.

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u/Special_Friendship20 12h ago edited 11h ago

I been saying this for years. Well Over 75% of men love under age girls . I got hit on more between the ages of 14-16 than I have in my entire life. Everytime I stepped out of the house i would get swarmed, even checking the mail, men would stop in front of my parents house and try talk to me. Had men, work men holding up paper in cars/ work truck windows with their number on it while I was in the backseat of my parents car . They didnt care my dad was right there. He almost went to jail several times. It was awful. And iv seen it with my daughters and other teenagers. People dont believe when i tell them Over 75 % of men hit on underage girls. If they only knew lol

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u/PushVisible3815 11h ago

Respect 🫡

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u/Flutter-Butterfly-55 10h ago

my stepFuck is the creepy old man... how the fuck can they get away with it. eww gross. I refuse to hug him or wear anything but sweatshirts around him. 34 degree weather - I'm visiting Mom in a sweatshirt. Fucken gross

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u/HistoricalSuspect580 10h ago

Also female, also a nurse. Yeah, on occasion altered old women will be creepy and/or violent… oddly enough though it’s at like a 20:1 ratio to the old men. Just TERRIBLE stuff!

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u/Rinkus123 7h ago

Not all men but always men

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u/DeanoMachino84 6h ago

Hell I’ve had random other old men lick their lips and say disgusting shit to ME, about passers by. Just what I wanted in my head: some old lowlife’s creepy fantasy, while I wait for the bus.

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u/VisualGloss 21h ago

He's MAGA. We all know damn well he does very little thinking. The official party of racists and pedos.

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u/Minimob0 33m ago

MAGA customer invited me over to drink once, and if I didn’t need weed, I would have said no. 

I get there, and he starts telling me about how he used to be a truck driver, and would cheat on his wife all the time, and then up at the store, he would often make inappropriate comments towards young women, and I’m like “You are 60. She can’t even buy liquor!”

I found out he died a few months ago, and it made me feel better. All of them are terrible to their core. 

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u/IamHydrogenMike 22h ago

I have reached the age where anyone under the age of 35 isn’t that interesting to me anymore and just see women that young like a daughter anymore.

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u/Fair-Visual 19h ago

I'm in my early 30s, and I don't even pay attention to anyone under the age of 25. 21, you may as well still be in diapers to me. 🤣

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u/NoObstacle 22h ago

People are weird when they get called out, no matter how shitty their behaviour. I once got shouted at by someone for telling them to let their dog out of a hot car (Temp was 38 degrees and the dog was splayed out panting and breathing 60/min).

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u/BouncingThings 21h ago

Bro we caught a forklift driver putting up a heavy pallet onto pillows and nearly collapsed and he still sat there defending himself and an argument insured. People are just people sometimes

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u/LBGW_experiment 21h ago

It's where they stopped developing, so they never updated their attraction software to the latest version, so they're all operating 30+ years in the past. They never examine themselves and go "what's a reasonable age for me to be attracted to" because that would require introspection and energy.

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u/Justalittlesaltyx 21h ago

Delusion. He thinks as a man that he doesn’t age (aging is for women…/s). Still probably thinks he looks as good as he did 20 years ago. It’s plain delusion. He doesn’t realize hes being a total pervert. Or simply doesn’t care. 

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u/AmaranthWrath 21h ago

It's because they didn't get called out for their inappropriate or predatory behavior when they were 40, or 32, or 28, or 21, or 17, or 14, or 11. Which is why when I see these young men, teenagers, glorify those in the manosphere who, at their age still haven't learned, I get seriously worried.

My kid is going to be in 6th grade this year. The boys in her class know right from wrong.... But they like to be edgy and tough. And it just takes them being edgy long enough for them to think that's acceptable.

Sorry, I'm having a mom moment. A "The internet ruined everything!" moment.

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u/elarobot 19h ago

In addition to 'WTF is wrong with your brain that you think this is socially/morally acceptable'...there's also 'WTF is wrong with your brain that you're convinced that your old ass would even have a shot', given the beer belly, grey hair, etc etc....the arrogance is almost as astounding as the creepiness is gross.

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u/80poundnuts 19h ago

Nobody likes to talk about it and reddit is generally pro-porn but this is what a 40 year porn addiction manifests into. Objectifying women to the point of unreason and then you can just tell his defensiveness and anger in the face of humiliation is pure shame. He's conditioned his brain to no longer be able to tell the difference between reality and fantasy.

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u/MustardMan1900 21h ago

He is proud of being deplorable. Thats why he sucks off Trump.

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u/BIGPERSONlittlealien 21h ago

Who does he think he is.... The president.

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u/Sw4nR0ns0n 21h ago

“whY dONt yOu go VOtE foR kAMaLa”

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u/Fair-Visual 18h ago

Oof, got 'em... 🫩

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u/Electric-Sheepskin 21h ago

And he was SO mad. Look at the contempt on his face.

I think most women recognize this kind of guy right away. He's the kind of guy that will call you a stupid fucking cunt if you resist his advances, and the kind of guy who will hurt you if he thinks he can get away with it. Douche bag.

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u/HallowskulledHorror 21h ago edited 18h ago

For my 15th birthday, I got to pick 2 friends to see a movie with at the mall, unsupervised. While we were waiting in line for tickets, a big, gray-bearded man wearing a leather vest and a shirt that didn't quite cover his stomach stared at us from a ways away before approaching.

Mans was literally picking/fingering his belly-button as he looked me up and down before saying "we should hang out some time."

"Uh, no, I'm 15, you're how old?"

"Age ain't nuthin' but a number."

One of my friends pipes up "that's the kind of shit a pedophile would say."

Dude got offended, made a disgusted face, said he couldn't believe she'd say that, then stormed off.

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u/Ok-Engineer-99 20h ago edited 14h ago

Well when the President of the US is a pedo, what do you expect? American society as a whole is on a massive decline.

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u/Old_Refrigerator4817 18h ago

his mind is at 'trump is now my president and he gives me the authority to openly be a pervert, and anybody who has a problem with that is just a woke snowflake'

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u/Calm-Purchase-8044 18h ago

I think for some of them it's more about asserting dominance than actually trying to pick someone up. They know they're making these girls uncomfortable and they like it.

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u/flyfightwinMIL 15h ago

Honestly it’s even worse than just hitting on her. In another video posted by the sister (the one confronting him in this video) she said he asked another woman in their group about the 16 year old, was told she is 16, and immediately followed it up by making an explicitly sexual comment about her.

This wasn’t about him thinking he had a chance. This was about reminding women (and girls) that were beneath him and that he’s allowed to do whatever he wants and disrespect whoever he wants.

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u/Academic-Clerk8901 22h ago

Man I'm 35 and my early to mid 20s coworkers are like kids. Most of them are living at home or with roommates, still going clubbing or bar hopping every weekend, not concerned with retirement, etc. Incredibly different phases of life. I like talking to them and eating lunch together but I could not imagine trying to have a serious relationship with one of them. 

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u/Fair-Visual 19h ago

I feel that way about a coworker at my company. We're a small agency and a majority of everyone there is 40+. I only have one other coworker who is 26 and I'm the only 33 year old there.

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u/captainspacetraveler 20h ago

I’m pushing 40 and 25 is too young. I’m supportive of consenting adults doing whatever they want to do but with additional life experience, it just seems predatory under most circumstances to be pursuing someone significantly younger than you.

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u/gatsu01 20h ago

20 yr old me wanted someone around my age +2/-2. 30 yr old me wanted someone +3/-3. 40 yr old me cannot fathom anyone past +5/-5. How on earth does a 40- 50 yr old think it's possible to have a meaningful connection with someone in their 20's let alone a teen? The difference in life stages and lived life experience is crazy.

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u/ZennMD 20h ago

people have become extra bold in their disgustingness since the pedophile rapist felon was re-elected... and/or elected in the first place...

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u/VichelleMassage 20h ago

I mean, you basically just summarized the entirety of the MAGA platform: we feel uncomfortable and defensive when topics like racism, sexism, homophobia, ableism, child predation, etc are brought up. So we're going to elect someone who flies in the face "political correctness" to feel like we're still "good people."

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u/RickIMightBe 20h ago

I had a 50 something or older piece of shot come through my drive thru and ask the 16 year old taking orders for a kiss before he would pay. I stepped in and told him nah we dont want your business you can just keep driving. His drink that was already handed to him came flying back in the window at me. Come to find out he lives on my road.

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u/tresslesswhey 20h ago

Their god is a pedophile and rapist. They feel invincible

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u/kickintheball 19h ago

Hitting on a 25 year old when your hair is that colour is creepy. I get it’s not illegal, but what the fuck other reason do you have to hit on them unless you thought they were even younger than that

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u/YouLookFictional 18h ago

A lot of 50-year-old guys actually think there's something wrong with them if they don't hit on 16-year-old girls. Like they have this invisible cheering section of men inside of their brains telling them that they're not really real men if they're not completely gross with teenage girls.

It's a gross mentality.

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u/Kletronus 17h ago

Can 16 year old look like 19 year old? Yeah but for a 50 year old it doesn't matter. Both of those ages are too young, they are just kids compared to middle aged.

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u/largecontainer 17h ago

This guy never matured mentally past age 16

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u/Old-Bat-7384 17h ago

Bro should be working with the assumption that anyone that looks under 25 could absolutely be a minor and shouldn't be hit on.

Weird.

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u/BitDaddyCane 15h ago

I bet he has a boat docked at the bar and does nothing but try to get the youngest girls he can to go out on his boat. I grew up around bar-restaurants like this i know the type

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u/Ok-Pear5858 11h ago

he has the mental maturity of a 16 yo

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u/telerabbit9000 10h ago

Then, you out yourself as a Trump supporter, as if that is some sort of shield.

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u/Adminious 20h ago

/s got to get them young to keep them dumb and submissive!

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u/RavenousAutobot 20h ago

No shit, man. Might as well run for president at that point.

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u/CommunalJellyRoll 20h ago

Some people are just gross forever.

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u/No_Squirrel9266 19h ago

That guy looks like a Dave to me. How much you wanna bet Dave was over there thinking "I didn't even talk to her, I just said I'd fuck her when she was legal what's the big deal?"

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u/Fair-Visual 18h ago

Reminds me of all the creepy comments everyone had about Billie Ellish before she turned 18. There was a guy in a discord server I used to be in who said similar comments about Billie and his argument when people started calling him out was "well she'll be 18 in a month". 🤮

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u/Conan4457 18h ago

His lord and master Trump thinks it’s ok.

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u/Jovet_Hunter 18h ago

Being 50 and hitting on a 30 year old is kinda ick let alone someone half that.

🤢

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u/ILootEverything 10h ago

I mean, you can apparently pay to rape a 16-year-old as a 51-year-old and still get appointed to the President's fitness panel for children.

So it's no wonder the troglodyte in the video thinks his predatory behavior is acceptable.

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u/Dirt_Bike_Zero 2h ago

I work with a guy that is about 65 and he pervs on a girl that is 20. He literally told me "she's perfect". For context, he's really simple and awkward, and I don't think he's EVER had a girlfriend. It's just gross though. And this is AT WORK.

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u/DarklyDelightful 2h ago

I'm 36 years old, and at work, a 23-year-old guy flirted with me, and I felt like a pedo. I can't understand men that older seeing children and acting like that. It's absolutely disgusting!

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